Are You Breaking Up With Someone You Love and are trying to avoid it? Are you trying to break up with someone? Are you trying to get back together after breaking up?
I am going to answer all YOUR questions in this article, but what You need to ask yourself are you still in love with this person? Are you sure you are in love or are used to being with this person? Do you know what love is? True love? This is all you need to ask yourself and answer before you move on!
Is Breaking Up With Some You Love Really Bad?
Breaking up with someone is very hard, whether if you are the person doing the break up, the other person is breaking up with you, or it is mutual.
It is a tough decision that leads to consequences such as heart ache, sadness, crying, depression, and frustration. Even though it is hard, sometimes it is unavoidable.
Breaking up with someone you still love is tough but necessary sometimes because you can part your ways and look forward to meeting someone better. I had a difficult time breaking up in my past.
I kept dragging the relationship because I was afraid of being single. Until one day a friend of mine told me that if I didn’t break up and continued with the broken relationship, It would prevent both of us from meeting someone that would actually make each of us happy. Therefore I realized that breaking up is necessary sometimes.
Another reason why breaking up with someone is really not that bad is when your partner keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. You have talked and talked with your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse, but he or she is not willing to improve in order to make the relationship work.
Sometimes people get used to being in the relationship and they get in their comfort zone where they do not want to keep working on the relationship.
Relationships are a working progress and it always need improvement. [Read How To Improve Your Relationship]
Here are some basic why you should break up or stay together….
Reasons To Break UP with Someone
- Cheating and Lying All The Time
- Constantly Making The Same Mistakes
- Your Partner Does Not Want To Work Together On The Relationship (Selfish)
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- Do not See a Future Together
- Physical and Verbal Abuse
Reasons To Stay Together (Work Through The Issues)
- Both are in Love
- You are Married and Made a Vow to God
- You see a future together
- Both are Willing to Work On the Relationship
Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all
Part 2 – Read the rest of this article here: How To Avoid Breaking Up With Someone You Love