Do you really want to get back at your ex? Are you trying to get revenge against your ex or are trying to get back with your by using some psychological counter attack?
You have to look deep inside of yourself to discover what your real intentions are in regards to your ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, or ex-spouse.
If deep inside of yourself you are really trying to get back at your ex you have to make sure if this is the best choice you can make and if you should waste your time.
Break ups are tough. Why? Because you spent precious time with someone you care about and had/have personal feelings for. So in my opinion there should be no hateful feelings.
From over 10 years of coaching and interviewing people with their break ups I discovered that over 90 percent of relationships can be improved and salvaged. You can repair and improve almost any relationship as long as you seek advice and follow methods that has given proven results to many people. [Read: Infallible Ways To Get Your Ex Back]
Here are a few tips to get back at your ex in which can also help you get your ex back if you decide to take him or her back.
Ways To Get Back At Your Ex
- Cut All Communication. By cutting off communication might seem a little harsh if you are tying to get your ex back, but if you are trying to get back at your ex, SILENCE is the strongest way to get him or her back. That will drive your ex-girlfriend, ex-boyfriend or ex-spouse crazy. He or she will think about you in which it will lead them to miss you and want what they cannot have. It works. Eventually your ex will think about how valuable the relationship with you was when they think that they do not have you any longer.
- Being Strong. You have to be strong and think with your head and do your best to not let your feelings cloud your mind right now. I know it is easier said than done. But it is very possible to stay strong and get back at your ex if you have discipline. Do not beg or run after your ex no matter what. You have to value yourself first, before anyone can value you. Do not let your ex think for any second that your are desperate or that you cannot live without without them. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong.
- Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a great person.
- Simply be yourself. Always be yourself. Do exactly what you do best. That is why your ex fell in love with you and if you have complete discipline to always be JUST YOU, it will make your ex want you again. It is simple but effective. Never let your ex think or see you acting in any other way. Be cool and collective. Just Simply Yourself.
Just Remember that you can get back with your ex if you really want too, but you need to follow proven tips that work. We are creatures of habit. We need to watch on constantly what we are thinking about in order to control our actions.
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