Should You Be in a Rebound Relationships?
Many people face the issue of being in a rebound relationships in this day in age. I have read somewhere, that if you do not try to do the hard work of completing and making yourself whole, every relationship is an attempt to complete yourself.
So therefore before getting in any relationship, it is extremely important to build yourself up first. Work on self-developing, your education, your career, fix your finances, and set your life goals and purpose.
That way all your values and personal self worth is in order so therefore the next person will only complete you.
And only then your next relationship will be healthy.
But if you immediately try to get in a rebound relationship right after a bad break up, you will immediately try to fill a void inside yourself, which is just having a person around to feel loved.
That is why rebound relationships often does not work!
No one will ever love you, if you do not love yourself first. That is why rebound relationships, just do not work. Rebound relationships might work for a little while but in the long run, it will get boring and not fulfill your overall need.
You will always compare it to your ex and simply not feel good about it. That is just a fact.
Many individuals that I have interviewed always say that it is extremely important to build yourself up and take at least 3 months to 1 year alone in order to make yourself whole and strong again.
Then no other relationship will ever bring you down. You will not need a rebound relationship to rebuild yourself and fill that void that you have not learned to fill yourself.
Rebound relationships is just a waste of time. It is always hard to get accustomed to something that is not a habit, especially being alone.
That is why some many people find it so hard. It takes at least 21 days to break or make any habit.
So before you get you start thinking about rebound relationships make sure you have made your emotions strong and you are stable enough to be in complete control of yourself rather than be dependent on someone else for your happiness.
Than you will be ready to start a new relationship.