Relationship Mistakes? have you committed any of the deadly sins? Most of us have committed many relationship mistakes unfortunately.
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
—M. Kathleen Casey
If you have made/committed/acted upon a RELATIONSHIP MISTAKE then you definitely have to forgive yourself in order to move on and not commit less and less mistakes. There is no way to ever be perfect, but you can ALWAYS strive to improve and do your best for your partner.
THE DANGER LIES WHEN YOU GET TOO COMFORTABLE AND YOU DO NOT WANT TO KEEP WORKING ON YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ANY LONGER
Relationships are a working progress therefore for as long as you are in one you will always have to strive to do your best.
Here are some of the Worst Relationship Mistakes You Can Make
- Always Nagging And Complaining – sounds like you? Yes some time together people often get comfortable therefore one starts being lazy and not committed as much as he or she should and the other starts complaining, complaining, complaining and yahh yahhh YAHH, ” you used to do this, you used to do that, you need to do this, and yahh” some more. Yes I understand why you do it. But it does NOT WORK. Psychologists and experts in human behavior say that the best way to get your partner to improve is to encourage and focus on his or her qualities. Honestly!!! Consider this tip. Start commending for the good things. There are always something good qualities to praise on. Start praising even on the things he or she is not doing. When you say to your partner, but without cynicism, i love the way you do this and that. The partner will automatically feel good and start doing it automatically because of the feeling that he or she felt due to the praise. We all like to be praised, Don’t WE? So stop committed this deadly relationship mistake or you are going to push your partner even further.
- Still Fighting And Going To Sleep? – does that relationship mistake happen often in your love life? Yeah we have all done it. Why huh? Because we always want to be right. It is horrible to sleep with negative thoughts going on your mind, especially in regards to your loved one. No matter how bad things are, it is highly recommended to make up and at least hug each other and say you will talk later in order to get some peace in your soul before sleeping. Why?? because you will sleep better! One of the steps to goal setting is to keep thinking about your goals or repeat all your goals in affirmations before bedtime. It helps you achieve your goals faster. Imagine fighting and thinking negatively about your partner before going to sleep? What kind of damage can that do? Stop Committing, this relationship mistake NOW.
- Acting Hard To Get So Your Partner Can Run After You? – Stop it! That is a relationship mistake you commit in your first relationship. And that is for some of us that are not taught correctly how to show our affection and love. I will be completely honest, unfortunately I committed that relationship mistake over and over again! Well it worked some times but in the long run I lost a few ladies that were great. Why? because they believed I didn’t care about them and was too hard. Deep inside all I wanted was more attention and love and that is how I thought I could get it! No that is the WORST thing you can do. The more love and affection you show (Well do not act stick like gum either), the better your partner will feel and show it back to you. It is always good to completely express all your emotions and feelings while giving the other person all the love they deserve. If you end up losing them (I definitely hope not, theThrefore Pray!!! ) then you will know you did your best. One of the worst feelings you can have is to lose someone because you intentionally did not do your best and played games. Yes I have felt that awful feeling that ate me alive! Stop it now if you are doing that. For those that doesn’t commit relationship mistake and have never, congrats! You are really mature!
- Cheating/Lying/Thinking You Will Be Happier On The Other Side – Do I really have to comment on cheating? I know you definitely know that is not right! Imagine your father or mother cheating on each other. Worse yet, you grandparents cheating? Your sister being cheated on? How does that feel? Or if your partner cheat on you? Definitely does not feel good right? So do not CHEAT. Be honest with yourself. If you are not happy, leave! You are preventing your partner and yourself from meeting someone better. Lying? definitely a relationship mistake that needs constant reflecting and thinking about. You have to try your best to be honest about all things. Everything you hide or fail to say pushes your and your partner away from each other. In a relationship, you are either becoming closer or farther. Imagine bricks being put between you your partner? The more you lie and hide things the higher the wall of bricks/rocks become. Therefore you are losing your partner little by little. The higher the wall becomes the harder it is to move the roadblock between each other. Happier on the other side? Even though you might be if your relationship has no more work to be done, sometimes you will face if not the same problems some other ones. Like I stated earlier, relationships are a working progress for life!
Those are the top 4 relationship mistakes you can commit. Even though there are many other relationship mistakes, these are probably the worst. I will write some more soon. So if you are committing these deadly sins, stop it immediately!
….and start working on to improve your relationships.
Please comment your thoughts and what kinds of sins you are committing and need work on. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
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Relationships are a working progress. Every single day you are moving closer or father from your partner. You choose today where you want to me in regards to your relationships at the end of 365 days! – Me